What do I want from Jesus?

This sermon http://www.sermonaudio.com/sermoninfo.asp?SID=fpc-031506 is a great challenge to me as both a Christian and a mother. As I desire great things for my children, do I desire for them the blessings the world has to offer or the eternal blessings of the Kingdom that come at great cost? They are breathing in (being influenced by) the true desires of my heart that I breathe out every day - do I RECOGNIZE Jesus in those desires? What do I truly want from Jesus - do I demand it for myself? For my children?